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How To Make Attractive Profile On The Dating Site.
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Sounds ironically but the majority of profiles submitted
to dating sites clearly do not meet important task conferred on them - to represent their owner and creator in all their beauty. This state of affairs had prompted me to write this article. Well. Let us first to define some - why should we even decided to place this profile on the dating site. Option first - just to have fun. Usually such entertainment is considered a maintaining a long term correspondence with people from the name of nonexistent person. Why? I do not know the answer to that question. Sometimes trying just to play someone, sometimes simply because |
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of nothing to do, sometimes trying to present oneself as "the ideal ego". Overall - this is not
our option. Rather to psychologists. But we will consider the following options for details. Often on the dating sites to gain the access to the database, people must register. Under the registration meant filling out the questionnaires and placing it on the public domain. So even if a person wants to read others' profiles - he needs to fill his own on all the rules and norms. It is easy to guess, in the process man does not want to strain severely - in fact it is just an empty formality for him, so that it's OK a various small stuff or just leave the profile untouched and he can go in search of other people. Just say - this approach has the right to exist, but fundamentally mistaken. First, the number of "empty" profiles creates a "white noise", site is lay-up, and after a while, nice girl or boy who wants to find his destiny, is tired to look through them and simply to took from the site. Secondly, the success of your mission to find the "only and unique one" depends not only on your efforts but also on the efforts of other people. Think yourself - a person coming to look at your questionnaire, can be looking for you exactly, coincide with all your requirements, be precisely what so brings you. But alas - the profile is empty, he did not know about you, shrugs shoulders and goes farther. Open yourself to search, and your chances to find your destiny will immediately increase by several times. After all, even if you sleep quietly, working or walking in the street - you are looking for, your profile can be viewed and somebody is already writing that very long-awaited letter addressed solely to you. And finally, option: the people who make all efforts to find a life partner. They have already created a profile, daily look through the fresh registrations to the site, talk with people they liked. In general, they do everything that is considered necessary. But again, a strange human psyche - very, very rarely the questionnaire is seen, which would have stopped your eyes, and rejoice the heart. Many sites already offer large number of templates to fill. All that needs to be done by human -is simply select what suits him from the list and that's all - the questionnaire, believed filled. Filled, but purely nominal. Of course, compared with the second option it is already much better - anyone who came to the personal page, can always say - whether he likes the drawn portrait or not. But these patterns - disservice to users. |
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What is bad in ready templates.
However, I think you have already guessed why. It is template. Of course, to construct from ready cubes is more easier, but we will not receive the particular originality in this way. The same with the profile. Thousands of questionnaires similar to yours by its structure. Tens or even hundreds of questionnaires - similar by data (did you think you were the only person with the height of 170, dark hair and weighing 68 kg?). And how to draw an interest of a person here? The correct answer - to distinguish from the general crowd |
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Show your individuality. Yes, you will have to overcome your fear. I understand that to be like
everybody and nothing allocated - is nice, cozy and there is no any liability. But sitting in this nice and cozy environment it is hard to expect that you will be noticed and appreciated. This means that the chances to fulfill your dream to arrange own personal life - are not too high. Again, remember about two-way-search - while you're looking for - somebody is looking for you.Therefore, let us show this world your uniqueness. And we'll begin... It is strange, but we will have to start all the same with physique - height, weight, hair color and other characteristics. I hope, here it is understandable that it is worth to specify the real characteristics, well, or at least close to reality. When it comes to the first meeting, you do not want to see on the face of your interlocutor surprised or, even worse, frustration. So, just reality, no matter how bitter it was. However, to sweeten it may be the fact that among those billions of people who inhabit our planet, will surely are the pair of tens of thousands those who like your type, no matter how unusual it may be. Purely on the basis of mathematical calculations. Pointed our physical measurements, continue filling. On each site - there are their own gadgets and requirements for completing the questionnaires. Therefore, for example, will address some "common" things. Let's start with at least a question: "What will do in your spare time", with a choice of answers. Try not to use these options, even if your "option" is there. Be original - tell about this in your own words. Do you like to walk the streets in your spare time? Do not select the option "To walk the streets", write something like "Go along the streets, watching the city life" or "go for a walk and think". First, the phrase will be caught by the sight, which has long been tired of endless "walk the streets" in hundreds of profiles. Secondly, the construction of the phrase can tell much about you to smart people, and you do not need stupid, am I right? And finally, thirdly, if we build such a sentence, for the person interested in you it would be easier to start a conversation. We also will talk about it a bit more. The purpose of your profile is to try to motivate people. And for this, let us use all means: in the story about yourself try to raise a question, controversial assertion, or just funny catch. Assume the same phrase: "Go through the streets, watching the city" - not only tells the reader what you are for personality, but also may cause her a question - what's that you can see in the streets of your city. And on this issue already, you can easily develop a long dialogue about the fate of humanity and imperfections of the universe. Or if you are not satisfied with this, the more landing things - why do I like an ice cream and do not like Saddam Hussein, as you would want. Do you see the magnitude of opportunity? If to arrange such questions and accents in the right places in your profile, you can easily set the tone for your entire future conversation and now to program all the mood with which people will write you first "Hello". Light sadness? Unbridled merriment? The desire to argue or attempt to help? All this is set in your profile right now. Let's take the graph "Your passions". It would seem, just a fountain of opportunities to stand
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But why did majority of the representatives of
humanity put in the profile something trite like "listen to music, go to movies, reading books"? Billions of people with ears, like to listen to music, billions of sighted people love to go to movies, to read the books and now even the blind can do it. But to create the houses of matches, or pasting pictures of pieces of fabric - perhaps it take you only. Are you collecting the old movies with Charlie Chaplin? Taking the photographs of the brick walls? Like to count the passed by cars or take |
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to invent the dishes from sausage wastes? Do write. Who knows, even if you will not find that
Single, then you will surely talk to like-minded and learn which part of a sausage is best used in porridge, but what is to spare for soup. Another interesting option - "Who I am looking for". And again, in how many questionnaires there is the trite "I'm looking for guy" or "I'm looking for girl". Are people finding suitable to seek somebody in the way of such indifference? After all, even when buying shoes they know beforehand what they are looking for. What style, what color, whose production. No one will say- "I am looking for shoes", but such answers are in order of things in profiles. Strangely, you do not find? Even if you don't care about who is your munion of fortune, even if you think that people are fully open only in personal communication, then write a testimonial in such a way that everyone who wants would be able to try it on himself. "I am looking for someone who could be beside, when needed, will not turn away and will not say "not now"". Simple? But each of us in our own measure of a self-delusion will suit perfectly to this definition. I just ask you, do not copy the hackneyed phrases already are drawing of mouth "I am looking for you" and "Seeking smart and cool girl" or "beautiful girl". Once again I ask you - please be eye-catching. All that you have now done - is fixed the patterns, proposed by site administration to something personal. Wonderful. Now move on to the more complex things. On many sites there are now an opportunities to tell about yourself in your own words. Do not miss this opportunity. Of course, this is difficult. But doable. Just imagine that you are telling a man who is listening to you carefully, to whom you want to please by all means. Do not go? We'll change the aim. Now you are on Doomsday and your fate is decided, depending on what you tell about yourself. Well, suppose you've lost your documents, but there is a likelihood that they could be found. Overall, I think you catch the idea. Tell the truth, a bit gloss can be, but worth not become tangled in lies. Also another option is, the story about yourself - to answer some questions in your own words. How to operate here, I think you have already caught. But please - remember another rake not to step on. If to write briefly - a little joke is better, but different than all known (your own). When every third profile in box "how do you relate to domestic animals" has the answer "Have no relatives" - this is not even sad, it is much of collective unconscious. Therefore, go with caution on popular jokes. Sometimes, of course, when they are not out of place, and if you firmly believe that this is the case, then go ahead. But if you have any doubts, it is better not to risk. The main thing is that you were able to overcome your fear of your own personality, to stand out from the crowd, to find the strength to be an original personality. However, to finish with this only, I would be somewhat premature. There are still a few points which you should know about. |
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The first point - is, the photo, of course. This is
precisely what attracts attention to your questionnaire. It is most people judge by it - whether it worth to look inwards or not. well. Of course, you may not to put it, but there are not so little people who have chosen such a decision, and usually they do not represent anything interesting, so the habitu of such sites simply miss all those profiles where there are no photographs. Many websites even have a special feature - "to show the profiles with photographs only". So you have to look for a suitable picture. Again, preferably from the recent past. The ideal option would be to make a special photo. You can have a professional photographer. Try to choose a style of photograph met the style of your profile. Agree, a lady in the bikini and a remark in the profile that she is looking for a man "just for friendship", is causing some dissonance in thoughts. If you know how to use Photoshop, try to quietly fix the disadvantages of photo. Do not know how? Then even not try - a couple of poor strokes, of course, can correct your photo, but a meticulous visitor will think: "So, therefore, |
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know how to imagemaker, interesting, what is also corrected in this photo?"
It is not worth to adorn much the reality, I certainly understand - we all want to be ideal. But this picture may cause a distrust - whether it is real? Had I ever seen her (he) somewhere in the open spaces of the Internet? And all the same in every human soul is a fear - "Shoot, what a beautiful she is, perhaps will not even want to speak with me". So please be simpler. Of course, to choose the candid amateur photograph with red eyes, where it is unclear whether the shadow of a tree or someone caught you a paint - is not worth it. Pick a reasonable balance. And the last question - regards the nickname on the site. Yes, you guessed. Please enlighten. You can be like everybody and write your name and surname. Normal option. You can try to stand out and write something like "Kitten" or "Flower" - this option will come if you are exactly sure that no one has this. But I think the best option is in the style of your profile. Let it be one name only, but if you will play well on this in the questionnaire, telling interesting about your name, it would be much stronger than any "Pussy-cat", "Pretty" and "Super-Macho". In general, that is all. Of course, not all is stated on this enormous subject. But the main thing, I think you now know. And I hope this will help you. |
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A bit of grumbling about theme, which should be better missed.
However, as it is shown by the general practice, the best way to stand out on the site - is not to full out with all of the above, but simply to put a winning picture (for girls - preferably naked, for men - with a beautiful inflated trunk). The second step - to write about your imaginary earnings. Write that you're looking for whom would you ride your own car with, and at least ten messages a day you'll keep receiving. Be more accessible - and your box will be overcrowded. The people are now strange and even are ready for a photo from a porn site, naively believing that there is the owner of profile. Do you need such attention - it's up to you. But believe me, to find the person of your dream on the site - it is feasible. While it is very difficult (if doing nothing). And I believe that you will succeed. |
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